retrogradeworks:

sonderdog:

internetexplorers:

what are your thoughts on ‘skinny shaming’?

As someone who has been “thin-shamed” I can say it does Not at all go hand in hand with fat shaming. People “thin-shaming” me was mostly verbal harassment- you’re too skinny, you look like a boy, eat a fucking cheeseburger, what’s wrong with you why don’t you like food?

But guess what, I don’t have a problem finding clothes that fit me. There aren’t companies that refuse to make clothes for my size. There is no shortage of messages telling me that despite the harassment of some, I am still beautiful and ideal even if I’m unhealthy. Despite being thin-shamed, I still PANICKED when I started a medicine that made me gain weight, and I had to really analyze that, because no matter what my culture will still say that “fat is unideal” “fat is bad” and “honestly its fine to starve yourself / but shameful and bad to overeat.”

So “thin-shaming” is shitty because it’s shitty to be judged and have people make assumptions about you. But Fat-shaming is institutional, it’s not just individuals harassment and judgement, it’s potential jobs, it’s clothing companies, it’s media and advertisement, all telling you you’re bad as you are. Like what a way shittier thing.

This is the difference.

axdorable:

after doing your foundation, contour & highlight routine, simply dampen your beauty blender with some setting spray, lightly press onto your skin in a downwards motion to reduce the appearance of your pores. this will also give your face a subtle glow, making your makeup look more seamless & perfect✨

chronicallywild:

armadillobear:

goblinparty:

I’m constantly torn between the ‘be kind to everyone’ and the ‘fuck everyone you owe them nothing’ mentalities 

Do no harm but take no shit

DO NO HARM BUT TAKE NO SHIT

thegeekyblonde:

yes i am a triple threat!! spilling drinks, screaming, and shedding long strands of hair everywhere

macisinfinite:

Well excuse the shit out of me, i didn’t realize that you decide what goes on my face. 

Its a good thing your opinion doesn’t matter.

brownskinhoe:

do you ever wonder whether your beauty is obvious or unique 🤔

retrogradeworks:

sonderdog:

internetexplorers:

what are your thoughts on ‘skinny shaming’?

As someone who has been “thin-shamed” I can say it does Not at all go hand in hand with fat shaming. People “thin-shaming” me was mostly verbal harassment- you’re too skinny, you look like a boy, eat a fucking cheeseburger, what’s wrong with you why don’t you like food?

But guess what, I don’t have a problem finding clothes that fit me. There aren’t companies that refuse to make clothes for my size. There is no shortage of messages telling me that despite the harassment of some, I am still beautiful and ideal even if I’m unhealthy. Despite being thin-shamed, I still PANICKED when I started a medicine that made me gain weight, and I had to really analyze that, because no matter what my culture will still say that “fat is unideal” “fat is bad” and “honestly its fine to starve yourself / but shameful and bad to overeat.”

So “thin-shaming” is shitty because it’s shitty to be judged and have people make assumptions about you. But Fat-shaming is institutional, it’s not just individuals harassment and judgement, it’s potential jobs, it’s clothing companies, it’s media and advertisement, all telling you you’re bad as you are. Like what a way shittier thing.

This is the difference.

axdorable:

after doing your foundation, contour & highlight routine, simply dampen your beauty blender with some setting spray, lightly press onto your skin in a downwards motion to reduce the appearance of your pores. this will also give your face a subtle glow, making your makeup look more seamless & perfect✨

chronicallywild:

armadillobear:

goblinparty:

I’m constantly torn between the ‘be kind to everyone’ and the ‘fuck everyone you owe them nothing’ mentalities 

Do no harm but take no shit

DO NO HARM BUT TAKE NO SHIT

thegeekyblonde:

yes i am a triple threat!! spilling drinks, screaming, and shedding long strands of hair everywhere

macisinfinite:

Well excuse the shit out of me, i didn’t realize that you decide what goes on my face. 

Its a good thing your opinion doesn’t matter.

brownskinhoe:

do you ever wonder whether your beauty is obvious or unique 🤔